Welcome to AlphabetDates.co.uk!

Alphabet Dating is a fantastic way for couples to add some extra excitement to their dating life. It’s easy for relationships to get a bit stale, but Alphabet Dates can help add that extra spark. Essentially, you’re setting up a date themed around a letter of the alphabet, in order. So starting with A, you could go Abseiling, or have Afternoon Tea. The next date is B, so maybe a trip to the Beach, or see a Band.

So… tell me the rules!
First rule of Alphabet Dating, do not talk about… actually, no wait… share away! There really are no rules, but we find this works for us:
– Take turns to choose what you do
– Be adventurous; if something is suggested, go for it!
– Be respectful; although it’s good to expand your horizons, respect your partner’s dislikes or fears.
– Take photos and share them!
– Think outside the box.
– Don’t worry too much about the rules, just being out there with the people you love is what’s important.
– Try to combine a few. Why not have Coffee, play Chess and watch some Comedy all in one date?

How much should we spend on a date?
How much can you afford? Dating shouldn’t become a financial strain, so don’t get carried away. There’s no real lower or upper limits on spending. There are plenty of date ideas that are completely free, or less than a tenner.

So we need to find an activity starting with each letter?
Not necessarily! The letter can be anything. For example, an E date could be in Exeter; that would be enough to justify the ‘E-Date’, but you could also go ‘Eating’ and do some ‘Exercise’. There’s no rules, have fun and think outside the box!

So we do this every week?
You do it when you’re both free. We lead busy lives, so it’s not always possible to find time. A good rule of thumb is to try a date every weekend, but others might do 1 a month, or just as and when their hectic lives allow!

I love the sound of this, but I’m single?
No worries! Find a buddy and get out there, who knows, you might meet someone doing an activity you love! Add that you’re looking to Alphabet Date with someone to your dating profiles, maybe that will add that extra spark of excitement. If you are using dating apps, remember to be respectful and be nice.

Me and my partner never find the time because of the kids…
Family date! Remember, it doesn’t necessarily have to be a date between just a couple, it’s just meant to be fun and bring people closer together, enjoying the world.

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